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Ray and Nicholas Hemachandra sitting by the Blue Ridge Parkway in North Carolina (photo by Kristi Pfeiffer)

Poem: To have and to hold until death has no part

To have and to hold until death has no part He had a secret. He grabbed you and pulled you…

poem, poems, poet, poetry
Nicholas Hemachandra looking out at Raven Cliff Falls in South Carolina, May 2020

No “Because” but Love—Intellectual Disability, Identity, Representation, and Value

Autism and disability pride movements assert unique cultures and identities. Can intellectually disabled people be more openly and equitably represented…

autism, autism acceptance, autism adulthood, IDD, intellectual disability

Love in the Time of Segregation and Discrimination

I came upon a box of a few dozen random—utterly random—photographs yesterday: family photos in NYC from a half-century before…

blackness, gay marriage, gay men, interracial, LGBTQIA, Love, race

Remembering My Aunt Hattie

Sometime after her sister, my mother, died and before her Alzheimer’s developed to the point she didn’t recognize or know…

alzheimer's, family, Love

Books Published, People Cherished

I am a judge for the Independent Book Publishers Association’s Benjamin Franklin Awards. Perhaps surprisingly, this work predates my years…

Benjamin Franklin Awards, IBPA, Independent Book Publishers Association, publishing, work

Sunday with My Son

These weekend wintry early mornings in which at times I’m feeling a little drawn—hardly inclined to roll out of bed,…

autism, fatherhood, forest, neurodiversity, parenting, pisgah forest, pisgah national forest, waterfall, woods

Hammer and Screw: Autism Acceptance and Rejection

I opened my 2019 HANd Autism & Neurodiversity Conference keynote address, themed as “An Autism Journey and Some Perspectives,” in…

autism, autism acceptance, inclusion, neurodiversity
Nicholas Hemachandra, young and old

“Poppa, Do You Have Autism?”

I told this story in my keynote address at the HANd Autism & Neurodiversity Conference at Appalachian State University in…

autism, autism acceptance, autism parenting, neurodiversity

In Joy: The Story of Bodhi Tree Bookstore

I recently interviewed the owners of Crystal Visions in North Carolina for Retailing Insight, the successor to New Age Retailer…

Bodhi Tree, body mind spirit, New Age, New Age Retailer

My Talk at the Disability Day of Mourning Vigil

    I was invited again this year to give a short talk as part of the Disability Day of…

autism, autism acceptance, day of mourning, disability, disability day of mourning, neurodiversity

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